ONLY STAYING ACTIVE WILL MAKE YOU WANT TO LIVE A HUNDRED YEARS-Japanese Proverb
I read this book a few months back but thought to write this review now because this quarantine period is the best time to find your ‘Ikigai’. Today is the 18th day of the lockdown and it is expected that this lockdown will get extended for two more weeks till April 30. Though a lot of good things happening due to this unprecedented lockdown, people are also feeling bored and frustrated. This lockdown can be used as a ‘reflection time’ to find out what is that thing which you do with full happiness, love, and satisfaction.
Ikigai is a Japanese concept which means ‘reason for being’. What is the purpose of your life or what gives you the utmost satisfaction? As per the centenarians from Okinawa, Ikigai is the reason we get up in the morning. What I realize that whatever work you are doing when you just forget about everything and don’t even bother to see the watch, it means you have found your Ikigai. But it does not apply to any Netflix series 😉 It means that you have immersed yourself into the work whatever you are doing and you forget about your surroundings. For instance- it can be writing, painting, gardening, photography, dancing, singing, decorating, coding, etc.
This diagram sums the whole concept of Ikigai. What you love doing is your Ikigai. If your job is your Ikigai, you will not think of it as work. You will love doing it. That’s the most important thing. Some just don’t enjoy their jobs because they have no interest in it or they are just not good at it. That is why the whole problem of stress which consumes our body and mind from inside. As per the American Institute of Stress, most health problems are caused by stress.
I liked the way the author of this book explained how does stress works. Modern humans are alert most of the time, stuck in the epidemic of multi-tasking, sitting in front of their laptop, having junk food, and waiting for notifications from their mobile phones 24 hours a day. The human brain equates the ping of a cell phone or an email notification with the threat of a predator which has huge health implications on the body leading to adrenal fatigue, cardiovascular diseases, insomnia, anxiety, and high blood pressure.
Though a little stress is good for you, you need to be mindful of reducing stress by having a stoic attitude and a high degree of emotional awareness and ultimately find the meaning of your life and go with the flow. When we achieve flow in our work, we have full concentration without any distractions.
The flow is the state in which people are so involved in an activity that nothing else seems to matter; the experience itself is so enjoyable that people will do it even at great cost, for the sheer sake of doing itCsikszentmihalyi (Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience)
The book also provides some useful suggestions to achieve the state of flow:
- No screen time for the first hour after waking up and the last hour before going to bed
- Switch off the phone before you achieve flow
- Do technological fasting for one day of the week
- Check and respond to your email once or twice per day
- Start your work with something you enjoy
- Find a less distracting place to work
- Divide your work into small activities
These days, we all are doing mundane tasks of cleaning, washing utensils, doing the laundry, etc, and the question is how to make these mundane tasks enjoyable. Turning routine tasks into moments of flow is key to our happiness. This is called the micro-flow. Even Bill Gates enjoys washing his dishes every night as it helps him relax and clear his mind. I don’t how others do it but I generally play some nice songs while cleaning my house and it helps me enjoy my cleaning work.
This book is for those who want to find their Ikigai and also want to know the secret of a long and happy life. Just to provide an easy list for everyone, it provides the ten rules of Ikigai:
- Whatever you do, don’t retire
- Take it slow and you will go far
- Don’t fill your stomach, fill your belly to 80%
- Surround yourself with good friends and stay away from toxic people
- Connect with communities
- Walk a lot and do Yoga
- Reconnect with nature
- Do mental work out
- Be grateful for things you have
- Live in the moment (Carpe Diem)
- Have a purpose(Ikigai) in life
“Simple Living and High Thinking” has always been the motto of our country’s ancient traditions and also reiterated by inspiring personalities like Swami Vivekanand, Gautam Budhha, Mahatma Gandhi, Abraham Lincoln, Mother Teresa, etc. So now when the whole world is slowing down during this quarantine period, find your Ikigai and make your life more meaningful and happy.